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Dressing for formal events can be very stressful as we get older—finding the right balance between style and comfort can be very tricky. The most important thing is to feel confident and happy, as few things are more distracting than clothes that are too tight, or shoes that hurt when you're trying to relax and have a good time. Maybe it's been a while since you've had to dress up and step out of your comfort zone—here are 15 fashion faux pas to avoid at formal events.
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Wear clothes that flatter your shape—not ones that are so big and baggy there's no telling what that shape is. Clothes that actually fit your physique will make you look and feel confident, stylish, and social.
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When was the last night you updated your eyeglasses? Old-fashioned frames that aren't flattering can undermine your whole look. Keep the drugstore reading glasses at home!
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Heavy makeup is aging and can make you look tired. Keep a light hand with makeup and avoid blue eyeshadow. If necessary, ask for a professional to show you how, so you can do it yourself in the future.
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Matching everything is another no-no. Whether it's jewelry or an outfit or accessories, having too many matching factors looks dated and unfashionable. Don't be afraid to mix it up!
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Nothing screams "careless" like wrinkled clothing. Use an iron or steamer when necessary. It takes just a few minutes and can transform your outfit.
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Cheap fabrics usually don't hang or support very well, and they will make you feel hot and uncomfortable. Opt for high-quality, natural materials such as silk that will keep you looking and feeling cool.
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It might be tempting to wear black but too much looks outdated and harsh. Head-to-toe black can wash you out. Try mixing it up with a pop of color.
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Are you still wearing fashions from 10 or 20 years ago? It might be time to update your wardrobe. Get one or two quality staples for special occasions.
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An elastic waist might be comfortable but can make you look and feel dowdy. Wear a properly fitted waist to look modern and put together. You might actually find it more comfortable than the elastic waist.
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When did you last buy new "nice" shoes? Old-fashioned, frumpy footwear can undermine your entire outfit. Anything with velcro is especially a big no-no.
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Sequins can make even the most stylish clothes look old-fashioned. They can also make you feel very hot, which is the last thing you need when you're already dealing with hot flashes.
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Chunky jewelry can look outdated and overwhelming. Try more delicate looks. Balance and simplicity is best.
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Over-accessorizing can lead to a frumpy appearance. As Coco Chanel said, "Before you leave the house, look in the mirror and take one thing off."
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If you wear glasses, don't keep them on a chain around your neck. Keep them in a case and safely in a purse, when not on your actual face.
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Poor posture can add years to your appearance. "Paying attention to erect posture and not slumping, is easier said than done. One must be mindful of proper carriage," says MUSC Health.